Closure is that space between where life is, and where we want it to be. Every ending must not necessarily have meaning. Sometimes accepting what is, should be enough.
Maybe closure is a mirage, because relationships leave an indelible mark on us. And they rarely ever end in our hearts and in our minds.
As Shahida Arabi eloquently stated,
Closure is only a fairytale, a myth, a legend. The only true closure can come from within…”, and we are lucky when that happens.
Rusty, I feel joy and sadness. Joy that I knew this marvelous person, sadness to miss her, joy that she has reached painless peace. I will never have “closure”. She will always be a part of my heart, my life,, my joyful memories. Judi will always be a part of me