We heal when we move forward, and look ahead. We heal when we pick up the pieces of the broken and start building again. We heal when we do good for others, and find joy in those that we love, and those that love us.
Life is not a zero sum game. Sorrow and happiness are strange bedfellows that live between the ears, and nestle in our hearts. We must look ahead and heal, one day at a time. And keep the memories alive of those that now walk greener pastures.