It’s human nature to hold on to ‘the baggage’ that we accumulate from the ‘let downs’ in our personal interactions with the people who matter in our lives. Conflict over broken trust, money matters, and personal and professional indiscretions destroy relationships and leave deep rooted hurt that can take an eternity to heal, if at all. The hurt is always deeper when the people involved are those we love and care about.
There is no magic wand that makes everything right. The decision is a relatively simple one. If the people matter, then learning to forgive and let go is the only sane thing to do. If the people are unimportant in your life, well, then, they really do not matter!
Wisdom is best understood by how you say it as much as what your saying. Keep up the great work my friend.