Wrapping Up a Life

Today I put my sister’s house under contract. As I walked through the house, the bare walls and empty rooms were a stark reminder that she was gone forever. Her elegant home was now just a house. 

I spent the afternoon pouring over Trust documents and saw her death certificate and documents that articulated her wishes. It was all so final, and all so surreal. 

We spend a life time building our lives with passion and care, and then leave the dismantling to those that loved us deeply.  Not sure I ever signed up to deal with all this, but sometimes we don’t get to chose. 

I know she is looking down on me today, as I protect the rights of her children and honor her final wishes with fortitude. I may be wrapping up her life, but she will always live in my heart.  

About Hemant Rustogi

An award-winning teacher at The University of Tampa, an entrepreneur, a CEO and founding principal of Advantage Pointe Internationale, and blogger on 5oclockreflections.com.

Comments

  1. Jennifer Makris says

    Sorry to hear of this immense loss. She was a fighter, and lucky to have you by her side in life through her cancer battle.